Haters.

I am blogging about this because someone asked me to write about how to deal with haters. Since many people go through this problem, even my friends, I decided to share my experiences and ways that I find that has helped me. Maybe in doing so, you can resolve yours.

First things first, haters will never go away that's for sure. Everyone has haters and everyone hates someone. No one is liked by everybody because everyone has a different opinion of people. Haters hate because they feel like you're doing everything wrong(disagree on how you live your life etc.) or sometimes it's just jealousy or they just don't find anything in you that they like. That's very normal and common. So I keep this very simple in my mind. If i hate someone, I won't put them in my life and I'll just not be associated to them at all. It really all depends on a person's maturity level. Whether you are mature enough to just not go online and torment a person and move on with your life OR start being some anon and just say bad things/even use your own personal accounts to comment horrible nasty things to others.

As a result haters are actually bullying and it's usually cyberbullying because humans feel that we can't be found or hurt in the cyber world. I'd just like to say that I have friends who cut themselves because of what anons or people say about them online. Most of the times what these haters say are all just made up rumours. Girls, we always use and throw around words like bitch, slut, whore like we just don't care but when you say it to someone, they feel really hurt. It's like you called them smth bad when in actual fact, they aren't. Sometimes haters just have nothing to say about your personality and just start commenting on your outlooks, saying your ugly, you need plastic surgery, your face makes me wanna vomit. ew. YUCK. etc etc.

Yea I usually get comments about how I look. All my haters just criticize my outlooks but I really don't care because I was created this way by God. I don't believe in plastic surgery so I learn how to embrace my flaws. I work with what God has given me. I believe every girl wants to look pretty and be beautiful inside out. We all are jealous over models and tumblr girls. But we all look different. Every model is different, every girl is different but they embrace what they have and that's what makes them so beautiful. I always say every girl is beautiful because it's true. Once you have a beautiful heart, it will show on your outlooks. If you don't like the way you look, do something about it (not plastic surgery) but like if you find that you dislike ur body shape, go exercise, have selective diets ( don't become anorexic though), you don't have a flawless face? take care of your skin more, spend more on facial products that will help. MAKEUP WORKS WONDERS. I've seen many girls wear contacts, a little eyeliner goes a long way. There are so many ways! But do this not to please others, but yourself. Just because one person said you're ugly, your eyes are too small or smth doesn't mean you go change it. It's not worth changing yourself just for that bunch of stupid haters. There are other people out there who loves you for who you are, maybe you just haven't met them yet. Everyone, especially girls, go through this hate thing because we are all very emotional and we sometimes just wanna insult others to feel better about ourselves. 

I guess to deal with hate is to ignore. At first it's going to be quite hard because you will feel that no one cares and no one loves YOU. and like ur never good enough. But you got to look at the bigger picture. Those are only words of a few people. You have lovely friends, a lovely family and if you know that you're not a bitch/slut/whore. Then why are you so upset? Just delete, block them so you won't see those comments anymore. Once you have confidence in yourself(not cocky) people will realize that you're confident in who you are and that your personality is amazing. But of course there will still be haters that are gonna insult you. But those are just words. 

There was this one time people kept asking me to kill myself because I was too ugly. I really almost did . But I have such a caring family and a small group of lovely friends that it wasn't worth it. Instead of looking and caring about what the haters say, look at what your friends think of you! :) Keep calm by idk listening to music? Venting on the guitar? I sing to express myself. Or hang out with friends so that you don't feel so alone. 

You can't get rid of haters. Everyone will have them. But learn to deal with them and adapt to the situation! Be strong, be who you are and if people don't love you for you. I WILL <3 HAHA but i'm sure there are a lot of people out there who wouldn't want you to hurt yourself or feel this way because of haters. 

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