GIRLS ASKING GUYS OUT?!

idk why but i decided to start my first blog on this issue about "Girls asking guys out on dates". This is probably because if you're a girl, you'll probably have friends around you that rant to you all the time that they like this guy but they don't know if he likes her back etc. and she's shy. 

Normally, I would say most girls will NOT go up to the guy and actually ask him out.

Probably because:

-scared of rejection

-scared to embarrass yourself if he doesn't like you back

-scared you're not good enough

-scared there's a better girl

-scared that he already has someone in mind

-scared that when you open your mouth, the words don't come out/you say something stupid.

so BASICALLY WE GIRLS- not all of us, ARE AFRAID.

so let's ask ourselves

IS IT BAD FOR GIRLS TO ASK GUYS OUT?

answer: no.

SHOULD GIRLS ASK GUYS OUT OUT?

answer: YES.

Girls should and can ask guys out on dates if you like him of course. Girls we are now in the 21st CENTURY. There is no wrong in girls asking guys on dates at all. However, I understand some of you disagree on my opinion but even if you disagree, ask yourselves; IS IT WRONG? 

Women in the past, has fought for our present people to have an equal footing with men. So, why would it be wrong for a girl to ask a guy out? I think that girls who actually have the courage to ask their crush out deserves a clap. 

Those who thinks it's not wrong but still won't do it, I don't blame you. It's pretty hard for starters and you'll feel weird, and like something obviously bad is going to come your way. But I think with friends supporting you and having inner courage to stand up for yourself, you'll be facing your fear in no time ;)

And to those who have a problem with this and thinks that it is wrong: STOP ASKING FOR EQUALITY.

Also, some guy friends tell me after girls have confessed to them, sometimes they feel the same way and it takes the pressure off them. Even guys who have rejected girls feel that it was brave enough for the girl to come up to them and ask. Guys really respect those kind of girls. Girls that takes her stand and has confidence in herself.

I know we are influenced a lot by movies, books that we read, tumblr pictures etc. It's always about the guy asking the girl out, flowers, romance, sweet, happy ending. I guess if you want that then you'll have to wait very long unless your guy is very confident and not shy in asking you out. But it's totally up to you.

I have asked a guy out myself before. I admit it's very heart racing but he did say yes and we did go out for one date. It didn't work out afterwards because after that one date, we realized weren't really that compatible as we thought we were. But he did say yes. So if you know this guy for quite some time and you have feelings for him, and you're not sure if he feels the same or you think that you're friendzoned. JUST ASK. PLEASE. Even if it's a no, at least you know it and you take the pressure off yourself. Who knows? Maybe he says no now but after some time he realizes you're amazing, beautiful inside and out, confident and have a great personality. He just might come running back saying yes ;)

OUT OF TOPIC: For me personally, I think that with social networking websites these days, a lot of people ask each other on dates or "will you be my gf/bf?" online. Frankly, I don't like it. Because you don't see eye to eye with each other, you don't have the spark in between if you actually ask in person. I think that asking out someone in person is more romantic, sweet and it shows that you really love them.

but this is only how I see it, it may not be the way you see it but I think there's some logical reasoning to my opinion on this topic!

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